Do you think you don't stand much chance of getting your ex girlfriend back without begging or apologizing for things you didn't even do? If the answer is yes, do not feel down; most guys react the same way in this situation. There is a high chance of nine out of ten, you're doing the exact opposite of what you should be and it is only making your ex glad she left.
Here are four points that you should consider doing:
Sunday, June 12, 2011
Can I Get My Ex Back If........
Whether the split up is very recent or it happened a ages ago, you probably ask yourself that question "Can I get my ex back if . . . ?" a lot. Occasionally you have to recognize that it's merely time to move on. But if you're determined to get your ex back, there are some things you can do.
Can I get my ex back if :
1. ... I play hard to get?
And there are some things you should probably not do, like pretend you really don't want your ex. Playing hard to get is a common thing to do, however it can often discourage your ex from getting you.. If you play difficult to get with your ex, it might just be easier for them to release you and move on to someone who's easier to find.
Let your ex know that
~ you are free to fix the relationship.
~ that you are wanting to do what it takes to make it work this time.
That approach will probably give you a better chance of getting back together than playing hard to get and playing games.
2. ...I try to force him or her?
Trying to get someone to do something they don't want to is a sure way to upset them. They might think that you are nagging if you constantly ask them to do a job or pick something up after work.
Your ex might decide that since you do little but complain and nag about the break up, it's easier not to be around you. So you might drive your ex farther away by trying too hard to fix things.
Try the opposite approach.
Why not stop asking your ex to come back and focus on being a good friend. Your ex will know that you want to reunite together if you make it clear to them, but with no expectations.
This might be difficult, especially at first, but if your ex sees that you are really a nice person to be around and not a nag, they will want to spend more time around you. This could lead to you making up and reuniting. At least, you have a better chance at it than if your ex fears seeing you and hearing you nag at them about coming back.
3. ... I make him or her envious?
You know your ex best. Jealousy may have worked in the past and may work again.However they may become so jealous which makes them angry and they decide to move on since you did.
So it might be a good idea to leave this thought out.
4. ... he or she is dating someone else?
It's possible, but it's the most difficult situation. What you could do is concentrate on being fun and enjoyable to be around, and give them a chance to miss your good qualities. Then see what happens.
You can always get more information on The Magic Of Making Up Here which can help.
Can I get my ex back if :
1. ... I play hard to get?
And there are some things you should probably not do, like pretend you really don't want your ex. Playing hard to get is a common thing to do, however it can often discourage your ex from getting you.. If you play difficult to get with your ex, it might just be easier for them to release you and move on to someone who's easier to find.
Let your ex know that
~ you are free to fix the relationship.
~ that you are wanting to do what it takes to make it work this time.
That approach will probably give you a better chance of getting back together than playing hard to get and playing games.
2. ...I try to force him or her?
Trying to get someone to do something they don't want to is a sure way to upset them. They might think that you are nagging if you constantly ask them to do a job or pick something up after work.
Your ex might decide that since you do little but complain and nag about the break up, it's easier not to be around you. So you might drive your ex farther away by trying too hard to fix things.
Try the opposite approach.
Why not stop asking your ex to come back and focus on being a good friend. Your ex will know that you want to reunite together if you make it clear to them, but with no expectations.
This might be difficult, especially at first, but if your ex sees that you are really a nice person to be around and not a nag, they will want to spend more time around you. This could lead to you making up and reuniting. At least, you have a better chance at it than if your ex fears seeing you and hearing you nag at them about coming back.
3. ... I make him or her envious?
You know your ex best. Jealousy may have worked in the past and may work again.However they may become so jealous which makes them angry and they decide to move on since you did.
So it might be a good idea to leave this thought out.
4. ... he or she is dating someone else?
It's possible, but it's the most difficult situation. What you could do is concentrate on being fun and enjoyable to be around, and give them a chance to miss your good qualities. Then see what happens.
You can always get more information on The Magic Of Making Up Here which can help.
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